BLAME AND MISTRUST

Dr. David D Burns [ Psychologist, Lecturer in USA ] says , ” A woman from Cleveland named Laura told me what an insensitive lover her husband , Dave, she complained that she’d never once experienced an orgasm in over thirty years of marriage . I asked Laura to tell me specially about the problems she and Dave were having in the bedroom. One of Laura’s main complaints was that Dave , a strong and athletic man , pinched her nipple tightly and constantly during intercourse . She told me that her nipples were quite sensitive and she didn’t want them touched , at least not like that.

I asked Laura whether she had ever talked this over with Dave and told him what she liked and disliked sexually . She seemed shocked and protested,” I shouldn’t have to ! Don’t you think he’d get the idea after thirty years…